Choose While It Still Counts
People change mostly when they're forced to. Like, they don't economize till they run out of money. They don't cooperate until they need to, to survive. They don't give until they're in big trouble if they don't. But the problem is, a gift that's not freely given isn't worth much. And neither is a choice that you're forced to make. Both lack real heart, and most of the goodness they would otherwise have. see article