Most people have been hurt by the failure of love relationships at some time in their lives. When that happens, it's "natural" to associate pain with love -- but it's also not true. Our pain was not caused by love; it was caused by something unloving we did in the context of our so-called "love" relationships. We can restore love's good name by honestly recalling our true love experiences -- and by honestly admitting that love has never hurt us. see article