How do we achieve enduring love? We need one kind of commitment to make a relationship endure, but a second, lesser-known kind to make that relationship truly loving. Here we speak of the commitment to the process of relating itself, to the process of real sharing and real closeness over time. This commitment must be maintained by strong interactive intention and constant energy input -- a high investment perhaps, but a small price to pay for the security, the healing, the upliftment, and the Divine communion we can enjoy together in the resulting bubble of relationship. see article