Many people gladly say that love is their topmost priority. But sometimes, the things we do to prepare for, or maintain love insidiously rob our loved ones of the time, energy and attention needed to make our relationships thrive. We justify this subtle priority shift in our minds, and we may even defend it with our mouths, but we always regret it in our hearts. For love to succeed in our lives, we must hold love up where it belongs -- above all else. see article