Intimacy is one of the most deeply longed for goals and highly prized achievements for all human beings. Unfortunately, successful, long-term intimacy eludes many of us. So when contemplating our prospects for love, we understandably wonder: "Am I ready to be part of a successful relationship? Is the other person prepared to make intimacy work?"

While it is impossible to predict with certainty the outcome of any relationship, this article clarifies the odds. It lists four characteristics of a person who is a good bet to learn to love, and describes some tell-tale signs of a person who is clearly not ready yet. Using these guidelines can help direct our relationship choices, and more importantly, can inspire and inform our preparations for higher love. See Article